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Elizabeth Bowes's avatar

Even grieving the loss of a pet must be acknowledged. I am still mourning his passing. It is NOT better for me to say to myself, oh he was just a cat, other losses are far more grievous . It is better for me to realize why I miss him so much and how he enriched my life. That loss was immediately followed three days later by the fire that left a church in ruins, a church where I had started to sing in the choir a year ago, a church of great historical significance here in Toronto. Trying to keep things in perspective but also recognizing when it is ok to grieve is vital for our mental health.

Thank you for such thoughtful writing.

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Warren Nelson's avatar

One of my life lessons I access frequently...

"You're never angry for the reason you think you are."

That short sentence has saved me, many times, from inflicting my pain on others.

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