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Erika Andersen's avatar

Julia - my definition of “hard” is many ticks down from yours (I’ve never been a gym rat or an athlete or a trainer, never broken anything or had a surgery) - but I completely agree with your core premise.

For me, “hard” now in my seventies is a demanding yoga class, a hill walk that makes me sweat and breath hard, doing the weight machine at a level that I can just barely complete the last rep.

So, continuing to push ourselves physically in a way that’s safe and ultimately enjoyable is key to a great third act. 😊👍🏼

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JULIA HUBBEL's avatar

Precisely, Erika. Someone else's hard is walking around the block. Another person's hard is leaping off a cliff in a flight suit. Someone else's is setting boundaries with a loved one. Doing hard things is as unique as a fingerprint- and all of it makes us stronger.

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Erika Andersen's avatar

Yes!!

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Beth L. Gainer's avatar

Julia,

I love this piece! You are an inspiration to me. I've got balance issues (who knows where they come from?) and I've been a gym rat for over 20 years and have avoided doing the really hard stuff. I need to get back to weights, building up gradually. Thank you for this.

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JULIA HUBBEL's avatar

I find that every time I up my game, my body screams YES! Sometimes it also screams, but that comes with the territory…..Thanks so much!

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Janine Agoglia's avatar

Thanks for the shout out! Saying you are too stiff to practice yoga is like saying you are too dirty to take a shower. Like going to the gym, what matters is that you show up and do what you can. Eventually, as you wrote, everything gets easier.

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Erika Andersen's avatar

Julia - my definition of “hard” is many ticks down from yours (I’ve never been a gym rat or an athlete or a trainer, never broken anything or had a surgery) - but I completely agree with your core premise.

For me, “hard” now in my seventies is a demanding yoga class, a hill walk that makes me sweat and breath hard, doing the weight machine at a level that I can just barely complete the last rep.

So, continuing to push ourselves physically in a way that’s safe and ultimately enjoyable is key to a great third act. 😊👍🏼

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